PARENTS' ROLE AND CONSTRAINTS IN ACCOMPANYING THEIR CHILDR EN TO STUDY DURING THE PANDEMIC COVID 19

This research aims to find out the role and what is being done by parents in accompanying children to learn during the Covid-19 pandemic. Parents who act as home learning executors must carry out the tasks arranged by the teacher at school. The role of parents as a substitute for the teacher is to convey the learning material that has been prepared. This type of field research uses qualitative descriptive methods. Data collection techniques were interviews, participant observation, and documentation. To determine the validity of the data, an examination technique is needed based on four criteria: the degree of trust (credibility), transferability


INTRODUCTION
This research is about the role of parents in accompanying children to study during a pandemic.The method used in this study is a qualitative descriptive-analytic method.The unit of analysis used is parents who are directly involved in accompanying children to study during a pandemic; the theory used for analysis is Linton's Social role theory (1936) which describes the social interaction terminology of actors who play according to what has been determined by culture.
The role is a set of behaviors that are expected to be owned by those who are based in society (Hasan Mukmin, 2014).The role is defined as a behavior device expected to be possessed by people who are domiciled in society.In contrast, the role is an action performed by a person in an event.The role is a dynamic aspect of position (status).If a person exercises his rights and obligations according to his position, he carries out a role.The distinction between position and role is for the sake of science.The two cannot be separated because one depends on the other and vice versa.There is no role without a position or a role (Syarnubi et al., 2021).Everyone has various roles that come from the patterns of social interaction in his life.
At the same time, the role is a dynamic aspect of position (status).If a person exercises his rights and obligations according to his position, he carri es out a role.The distinction between position and role is for the sake of science.The two cannot be separated because one depends on the other and vice versa.There is no role without a position or position without a role.Everyone has various roles that come from the patterns of social interaction in his life.At the same time, relations arising from a "status set" have their style and contain their expectations.
Behavior as a scholar is different from behavior as a husband.Robert Merton uses the term multiple roles for all the roles that arise from a "status set."For example, The ulama had various roles related to multiple statuses.Each state in the set results in s p e c i f i c roles, which are called role sets for each state.
Role-set as parents in accompanying children in learning during a pandemic based on social analysis, which starts from status and role, will highlight internal The role of parents responsible for guiding and supervising, which can be given by parents acting as teachers, just like in schools.Children's learning activities carried out at home are adapted to the child's condition; in this case, parents become teachers who can motivate children by accompanying children's activities at home.
Parents have a role as primary educators; the activities given to children are adjusted to the child's developmental level.Therefore, parents must play an active role in collaborating with teachers in providing and implementing learning activities.
Furthermore, as teachers, parents have the task of educating and teaching their children.Therefore, parents are required to be more patient in guiding and directing children as the teacher's task at school so that they can complement each other and help solve the problems and difficulties children face at school and home.Parents play an important role in instilling habits and patterns of behavior, as well as instilling religious and moral values that are age-appropriate and cultured in their families.Parents who act as executors of learning at home must be carried out following the tasks arranged by the teacher at school.The role of parents as a substitute for the teacher is to convey the learning material that has Based on the explanation from the informant above, who has a double role as a teacher and also a parent for children at home, whose role is not only focused on accompanying children in terms of studying and schoolwork that they are guided by but must share their time well, because educating children at home and also provide education to students who are taught through social media.Of course, the role of parents and also as a teacher is a job that takes much time and thought, but it must be carried out so that everything goes as expected.

RESEARCH METHODS
The method used in this study is a case study, a research design used to reveal in more detail and comprehensively the situation of the object being analyzed (Alwasilah, 2002).Case studies are well suited for answering "how" questions because these types of questions explore deeper data.In this case, the research analyzes the roles and constraints of parents regarding their roles and constraints in accompanying children during the Covid-19 pandemic.This research is qualitative descriptive research; the research design is qualitative descriptive research with a case study approach.This research will explain what is contained or occurs in a particular field or area; the data collected is classified according to its type, nature, or condition.After the data is complete, conclusions are made (Arikunto, 2006).
In this section, the roles and constraints of parents will be described and The role of parents The role of parents in guiding and educating children during a pandemic is what we are experiencing together at this time; the role of parents is crucial so that the continuity of children's education continues to run smoothly, even though there are many obstacles and in the child's learning process at home.Parents remain the guardians of their children's education, especially during this pandemic.Not only is the economy a problem, but the education sector is also something that parents need to pay attention to because, with proper supervision, the child's education will be improved.What is more, children learn at this time more often by playing online games than actively learning to make school assignments given by the teacher.Wise parents will educate their children with a sense of love to produce accomplished and reliable children rather than education based on obligations or assignments alone.In line with what was expressed by Ms. Emilia as a parent who works as a teacher, it will be explained below: "We as parents not only provide a living, but we also have to pay attention to our children, especially their education.especially during this corona, if there is no strict and optimal parental supervision, children will become disobedient with school assignments given by teachers while online."(Excerptfrom Interview with Mrs. Emilia) The role of parents is responsible as a motivator and companion, which can be given by way of parents acting as teachers, just like at school.Based on information from the informants above, the role of parents is not only focused on accompanying children to study, but parents also play an active role in maintaining health and cleanliness and keeping the environment comfortable and clean.

Ensuring Children Adopt a Clean and Healthy Life
Of course, parents want their children to always be in good health, especially with the current conditions, namely during the Covid-19 pandemic; of course, parents are becoming increasingly worried about that.One thing parents can do is remind their children to adopt a healthy lifestyle p e r m a n e n t l y .M o r e o v e r , clean to avoid various diseases and teach children to follow health protocols, as parents explain below.
"Yes, of course, we as parents must... take care of our children, especially when the coronavirus is rife; we remind you always to wash your hands with soap, keep your distance, and wear masks wherever you are (Excerpt from Interview with Mrs. Yen).
From the parents' statement above, it is the treatment of parents who tensions within a role-set caused by differences in positions, attitudes, values, Parents' Role And Constraints In Accompanying Their Childr En To Study During The,… P-ISSN 2477-5436 and E-ISSN 2549-6433 DOI: https://doi.org/10.19109/tadrib.v8i2 analyzed in accompanying children to study during the Covid-19 pandemic, namely an analytical technique that emphasizes the preparation of coding concerning predetermined research questions so that the themes are arranged according to the research questions and become a reference in explaining the phenomena that occur (Heriyanto, 2018).Parents' Role And Constraints In Accompanying Their Childr En To Study During The,… P-ISSN 2477-5436 and E-ISSN 2549-6433 DOI: https://doi.org/10.19109/tadrib.v8i2Vol. 8 No. 2 (Desember 2022): 126-141 Available Online At: http://jurnal.radenfatah.ac.id/index.php/TadribRESEARCH RESULTS AND DISCUSSION This research is about the role of parents in accompanying children to study during a pandemic in the 22 Ilir sub-district of Palembang City; the method used in this study is a qualitative descriptive-analytic method, a n d the respondents used are parents who are directly involved in accompanying children to study during a pandemic.Findings in the field known as follows: always provide understanding and training to c h i l d r e n about cleanliness and tidiness to implement health protocols in the midst of the Covid-19 outbreak.Parents' Role And Constraints In Accompanying Their Childr En To Study During The,… P-ISSN 2477-5436 and E-ISSN 2549-6433 DOI: https://doi.org/10.19109/tadrib.v8i2 No. 2 (December 2022): 126-141 Available Online At: http://jurnal.radenfatah.ac.id/index.php/Tadribteachingtheir children.Therefore, parents are required to be more patient in guiding and directing children as the teacher's duties at school so that they can complement each other and help solve problems or difficulties children face at school and at home.Parents play an important role in instilling habits and patterns of behavior and instilling religious values, moral values, and others according to age and culture in their family.Parents who act as executors of learning at home should be carried out following the tasks arranged by the teacher at school.The role of parents as a substitute for the teacher is to convey the learning material that has been prepared.In line with what was expressed by Ms. Ryaihana Dewi, who works as a teacher, it will be explained below: Zohiroh, Ridhah, Ben Wadham, Firman Mansir, Idi, Syarnubi Parents' Role and,… P-ISSN 2477-5436 and E-ISSN 2549-6433 DOI: https://doi.org/10.19109/tadrib.v8i2Vol. 8