Dimensions of Islamic Parenting Style for Children's Age in Parents Working in Urban Areas
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This study aims to find out how the description of Islamic parenting for parents who work in urban areas. This study uses descriptive qualitative research methods. The technique used is perposive sampling technique, the research subjects are 6 married couples who have children aged 7-14 years, married couples who work and are aged 25-40 years. The data collection method used is semi-structured interviews. The results of this study indicate that Islamic parenting for parents who work in urban areas is that the subject applies discipline, strict supervision, limits, must follow orders and punish if children make mistakes and violate the rules that have been made.
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Dimensions of Islamic Parenting Style for Children’s Age in Parents Working in Urban Areas. (2021). Indonesian Journal of Behavioral Studies, 1(4), 535-555. https://doi.org/10.19109/ijobs.v1i4.11367
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Vol. 1, No. 4, December 2021
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Dimensions of Islamic Parenting Style for Children’s Age in Parents Working in Urban Areas. (2021). Indonesian Journal of Behavioral Studies, 1(4), 535-555. https://doi.org/10.19109/ijobs.v1i4.11367
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Boediman, L. B., & Desnawati, S. (2019). The Relationship between Parenting style and Children’s Emotional Development among Indonesian Population. Jurnal Ilmiah Psikologi MIND SET, 10 (1), 1-66. doi: 10.35814/mindset.v10i01.735
Borualogo, I. S. (2021). The Role Parenting Style to the Feeling of Adequately Heard and Subjective Well-Being in Perpetrators and Bullying Victims. Jurnal Psikologi, 48 (1), 96-117. doi: 18.22146/jpsi.61860
Candra, S. (2018). Pelaksanaan Parenting Bagi Orang Tua Sibuk Dan Pengaruhnya Bagi Perkembangan Anak Usia Dini. Jurnal ThufuLA Jurnal Inovasi Pendidikan Guru Raudhatul Athfal, 5 (2), 267. doi: 10.21043/thufula.v5i2.3475
Elvina., Ritonga, M., & Lahmi, A. (2021). Islamic Parenting and Motivation from Parents and Its Influence on Children’s Ability to Read the Quran. Jurnal tarbiyatuna, 12 (2), 121-134. doi: 10.31603/tarbiyatuna.vl212.4996
Elstad, J. I., & Stefansen, K. (2014). Social Variations in Perceived Parenting Style Among Norwegian Adolescents. Children indicators Research, 7 (1), 649-670. doi; 10.1007/s12187-014-9239-5
Enoh, E., & Afrianti, N. (2017). Mother Factory Worker’s Parenting Style and its Implication for Early Childhood Islamic Education. Advances in Social Science, Education and Humanities Research, 188, 986-991
Hadjicharalambous, D., & Demetriou, L. (2020). The Relationship Between Parent’s Demographic Factors and Parenting Style: Effects on Children’s Psychological Adjustment. Journal of Psychology Research, 10 (4), 125-139. doi: 10.17265/2159-5542/2020.04.001
Hanggara, B. U., Iswaningtyas, V., & Yulianto, D. (2021). Be Strong or Weak: The Contribution of Parenting Style toward Parent Involvement Motivation in Accompanying Children During Learning from Home. Journal of Educational, Health and Community Psychology, 10 (4), 689-703
Heinrich, C. J. (2014). Parent’s Employment and Children’s Wellbeing. The Future of Children, 24 (1), 121-146. doi: 10.1353/foc.2014.0000
Hendri, H. (2019). Peran Pola Asuh Orang Tua Terhadap Pembentukan Konsep Diri Pada Anak. Jurnal AT-TUJIH Bimbingan dan Konseling Islam, 2 (2),
56-17
Herdiansyah, Haris. 2014. Metodologi Penelitian Kualitatif untuk Ilmu-Ilmu Sosial, Jakarta: Salemba Humanika
Hurlock B. Elizabeth. 2014. Perkembangan Jilid 2, Jakarta: Penerbit Erlangga
Kӧsterelioğlu, İ. (2018). Effect of Parenting Style on Student’s Achivement Goal Orientation: A Study on High School Students. Journal of Educational Policy Analysis and Strategic Research, 13 (4), 91-107. doi: 10.29329/epasr.2018.178.5
Kusmiati, E., Sari, D. Y., & Mutiara, S. (2021). Pola Asuh Orang Tua Dalam Membentuk Disiplin Anak Di Masa Pandemi. Pernik Jurnal PAUD, 4 (2), 78-93
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Mamat, M. (2015). Effect Parenting Style on Children Development. World Journal of Social Sciences, 1 (2), 14-35
Merckling, D. D. (2019). Parenting Styles and Their Effect. Reference Module in Neuroscience and Biobehavioral Psychology. doi: 10.1016/B978-0-12-809324-5.23611-0
Muse, J. A., & Tyokyaa, T. L. (2016). Influence of Work-Family-Conflict and Gender on Parenting Styles among Working Parents in Makurdi Metropolis. European Scientific Journal, (20), 299-316. doi: 10.19044/esj.2016.v12n20p299
Ngewa, H. M. (2019). Peran Orang Tua Dalam Pengasuhan Anak. Jurnal Ya Bunayya, 1 (1), 96-115.
Padjrin, P. (2016). Pola Asuh Dalam Perspektif Pendidikan Islam. Jurnal Intelektualita Keislaman Sosial Dan Sains, 5 (1), 1-14. doi:
10.19109/intelektualita.v5i1.720
Rahman, M. H., & Rahma, A. (2020). Orang Tua Multi Etnik Di Kota Tanjung Balai: Gaya Pengasuhan Dan Perkembangan Sosial Emosional Anak Usia
Dini. Jurnal AWLADY: Jurnal Pendidikan Anak, 6 (2), 173-191
Rahmawati, S. W. (2016). Holistic Parenting To Enhace Children’s Well Being. Journal of umj.ac.id, 912-918
Rakhmawati, I. (2015). Peran Keluarga Dalam Pengasuhan Anak. Jurnal Iain Kudus, 6 (1), 1-18
Rouzi, K. S., Afifah, H., Hendrianto, C., & Desmita, D. (2020) Establishing an Islamic Learning Habituation Through the Prophet’s Parenting Styles in the New Normal Era. International Journal of Islamic Educational Psychology, 1 (2), 101-111. doi: https://doi.org/10.18196/ijiep.v1i2.9638
Samokhvalova, A. G. (2016). Parenting Mistakes as a Factor in Communication Difficulties in Children. Journal of Procedia – Social and Behavioral Sciences, 233, 123-127, doi: 10.1016/j.sbspro.2016.10.164
Santoso, D. B., & Amirudin, N. (2020). Pola Pengasuhan Anak Dalam Pembentukan Perilaku Yang Islami Pada Keluarga Bercerai. Jurnal Tammadun – FAI UMG, 21 (1), 31-52.
Sonia, G., & Apsari, N. C. (2020). Pola Asuh Yang Berbeda-beda Dan Dampaknya Terhadap Perkembangan Kepribadian Anak. Jurnal Prosiding Penelitian & Pengabdian Kepada Masyarakat, 7 (1),128-135
Soelaeman. (1994). Pendidikan dalam Keluarga. Bandung: Alfabeta
Sugiyono. 2013. Metode Penelitian Pendidikan Pendekatan Kuantitatif, Kualitatif, dan R&D. Bandung: Alfabeta
Sumargi, A. M., Prasetyo, E., & Ardelia, B. W. (2020). Parenting Style And Their Impacts On Child Problem Behaviors. Jurnal Psikologi, 19 (3), 269-284
Syaiful, Bahri Djamah. 2014. Pola Asuh Orang tua dan Komunikasi dalam Keluarga, Jakarta: PT. Rineka Cipta
Theresya, J., Latifah, M., & Hernawati, N. (2018). The Effect of Parenting Style, Self-Efficacy, and Self-Regulated Learning on Adolescents, Academic
Achievement. Journal of Child Development Studies, 3 (1), 28-43. doi: 10.29244/jcds.3.1.28-43
Viswanath, S., Asokan, S., Geethapriya, P., & Eswara, K. (2020). Parenting Styles and their Influence on Child’s Dental Behavior and Caries Status: An Analytical Cross-Sectional Study. Journal Clinical Pediatric Dentristry, 44 (1), 8-14. doi: 10.17789/1053-4625-44.1.2
Wildan, M., & Qibtiyah, A. (2020). Parenting Style And The Level Of Islamism Among Senior High School Students In Yogyakarta. Journal Of Indonesian Islam, 14 (1), 187-209. doi: 10.15642/JIIS.2020.14.1.187-209